Free live masterclass · Thursday, November 19

How to get out of your head and be yourself with anyone by swapping one question

No lines to memorise, no faking extroversion, no saving another video. In one hour I'll show you the verdict you've been running and how to end it.

Thursday, November 19 · 6:00pm PT · live on Zoom
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Here's what you'll learn

01
How to find the verdict you've been running, Stay Quiet or Fill the Gap, and overturn it
Why it was never your personality, and the private rule you've been grading every conversation against.
02
The one-question swap that ends "what do I say next?"
Trade "Do they like me?" for "Do I like them?" and pull the thread they already handed you.
03
How to use scored reps so it finally sticks when it counts
Why books and videos never changed the moment, and the rep ladder that does.
Your host

Meet your host

Dylan Miracle
Dylan Miracle
Conversation coach · @conversationalfreedom

I was twelve, the new kid in a new state, and nobody had a reason to talk to me. I found How to Win Friends and Influence People in my dad's room, read it like a manual and did what it said. A year later I was student body president.

I've been studying it ever since, through Division I wrestling at Cal Poly, a red balloon on Netflix and a dinner with my taxi driver in Giza. Everything I teach on Thursday comes from my own reps and the reps my clients are running right now.

14 yrsstudying how people actually connect
70client calls reviewed to build the method
146+people running weekly reps with me
Free when you register
The "What Do I Say Next?" Card
Never go blank mid-conversation again.
One page to screenshot and keep on your phone: four openers that work on anyone, the follow-ups they've already handed you, and three clean exits.
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What people say after they actually do the reps

Community memberInstagram DM

I'm already having way better conversations. More confident and relaxed instead of anxious and rushing to get out of it. For real, thank you.

FollowerInstagram DM

I don't think of myself as an introvert anymore… I've met so many new people!

FollowerInstagram DM

This weekend at a festival, I told a short story impromptu in front of a small crowd of strangers at a fire pit. I made so many friends because of speaking first.

FollowerInstagram DM

I coached myself this morning. I was like "what would Dylan say?"

FollowerSame week

I used the triangle pyramid thing the other day. It worked, especially the part where you say how you feel about bringing it up. Really disarms.

FollowerSame day

I sent it to my best mate and said hey, love ya. Sorry for not letting him sit in the mud with me.

FollowerInstagram DM

I started going out with a goal to compliment five people a day. Especially on the days I wasn't feeling good.

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As a recipient of this method from a man in a romantic context, I have never felt safer as a woman. 10/10.

Our students

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